The Science of Attraction
(Helen Fisher PhD researched this enlightening study in depth.)
A Relationship Guide for your best Personality Match
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A recent three-year study revealed: 4 different chemical systems were found in the brain, which contributes to forming your personality.
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Not just hormones, but rather Systems: One, or more of the systems, have determined your behavior, decisions, and emotions since birth.
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Find yourself and your ideal partner's desirable characteristics.
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Be sure you have the right match for your personality. There will be some overlap between the systems but you'll see your dominance.
Dopamine
Novelty
Curious
Impulsive
Spontaneous
Open Minded
Creative
Serotonin
Cautious
Traditional
Meticulous
Routines
Loyal
Dependable
Testosterone
Structured
Competitive
Independent
Decisive
Uncompromising
Tough Minded
Estrogen
Diplomatic
Trusting
Social
Agreeable
Insightful
Big picture
How to Talk to each Personality Type
Dopamine
Go somewhere. Take a walk in a park. Give them time to think. Don’t grill them on how they’re feeling.
Ask what they do. Sitting around is no fun for the Explorer, unless it’s in a new location.
Serotonin
They can have a conversation, keep it familiar. Debate how to do stuff. Say 5 positive to 1 negative statement or you’ll lose them right away. Pick a time to talk. Schedule it. They like similar personality type.
Testosterone
Get straight to the point. Keep it matter of fact. Be relaxed in your pose. Be totally honest. Be tough.
They don’t want their same personality type, more opposite.
Estrogen
Leave lots of time to talk. They want to be heard. Talk about how they feel. They rehash past arguments.
They see connections and want to talk about it. They want opposite personality type.